Friday, July 28, 2017

Women are the NEW MEN

Women are the NEW men

A room of powerful women, i'll bend the knee so hard i'll break both of my knee cap

Yup, you read it. I'm insinuating just that: women are becoming the new men and I'm all the way the fuck here for it.  I'm in the bleachers screaming against the home team. Like a New Yorker cheering for the Boston Red Sox, like a current Duke undergrad rooting for the North Carolina Tar-Heels. Yes, I'm seeing the same empowering attitude, moves, and grit from today's women that resembled men in the past, only that they're looking at our blue print with disgust and making it better, enhancing their game with performance enhanced pettiness. No longer blinded by man's structural ways of suppressing women. There are countless of women leaders who were brave, educated, experienced, and knowledgeable in the past to single out only one, but because of their efforts, women are different, for the fucking better. Now we have 
a diverse level of representation of outstanding women in all areas: in the political aspect, such as Hillary Clinton and exemplary leaders like my ex Michelle Obama, undeniable talented women such as Rihanna, Beyonce, Serena Williams, and my up and coming baby moms Cardi B, and finally better representation in cinema roles and shows such as Gal Gadot (Wonder Woman), Kerry Washington (Scandal), Issa Rae (Insecure), The cast of Orange is the New Black *Cast constituted of mainly women* and lastly my future wife Daenerys of the House Targaryen, the First of Her Name, The Unburnt, Queen of the Andals, the Rhoynar and the First Men, Queen of Meereen, Khaleesi of the Great Grass Sea, Protector of the Realm, Lady Regnant of the Seven Kingdoms, Breaker of Chains and Mother of Dragons (Emilia Clarke actor on Game Of Thrones, the best fucking show in the planet). Some of the sudden changes i've seen in women today, and im happy for the dawn of these new days and shit:


Unapologetic
Never apologize for yourself ladies, remember all these bitchassniggas is ya sons
t's a breath of fresh air to see a larger population of empowered women, not accepting society's shackles of what a woman is suppose to be by welcoming and being comfortable with who they are in all perspectives... be it their features, looks, complexion, finances, lifestyle, and overall success. The vision of the weak, vulnerable woman has always been painted in history... not no more my niggas, or at least not for so long. The realization of their empowerment can boil down as simple as women noticing that they do not need validation from anyone- friends or family, male or female. Just by ignoring man's old rhetorics, by being their unapologetic selves in whatever fashion, getting rid of old mindsets and shaking off the manipulation of man's ideal "woman" and becoming the women they want & quiet frankly need to be. One of the ways that I'm seeing this being done is by women normalizing the same behavior/actions that men get away with and mimicking it, from our promiscuous sex life, our aptitude of being emotionless, and desire for power and control. One of the many perks of being a man is the habit of rarely needing to explain ourselves for whatever action we do, the glorious benefit of being applauded for certain actions where as a women would get degraded for it and at times they face consequences.. BUT this is something that women are kind of realizing that doesn't make sense... doesn't make sense to me either, because why?... Women SHOULD be able to do as they please with little explanation or none at all, although it shouldn't be that much of a realization. Women are tackling double standards and making just one overall standard. What is acceptable for one party should be acceptable for the other... slowly but surely they're chipping away the stigmas they face on a day in and day out basis. I mean, I can advocate and shit but women are loud of enough, keep on pushing that envelope.

2 Can Play that Game 
Give no fucks like this bitch right here 
Where women used to take the short end of stick in relationships, plenty of women are getting hip to the game... where women once wouldn't even think of cheating are now fucking niggas in the blink of an eye. You play games, shorty gonna go play hot potato on a dick. (basically curving some dicks and giving it up to selective hot ones, you know how the game goesThey got the bloodhound nose, the minute they sniff any speculation they're on the move... women should know they really hold all the power, men are expected to cheat, nothing new. But imagine the turn around if men walk into relationships expecting women to cheat? That as a norm? You know, treating your s/o the way they treat you? (just a thought) another example of a woman's edge over a man in this situation... what they don't take advantage of is that they are more likely to receive an outstanding number of attention- from snap-messages, insta-DM, or Twitter DM... they're not that far away from responding to a dude with a decent enough approach and features... this is minus the random catcallings they might experience. Let's switch focus on the suitors' aspect; women are also not tolerating being dictated as they once were; words such as "you can't wear, go, put or do this and that" doesn't hold the same merit that it once did, shit is rather foreign to some women now. Especially those who have a realization that they're in control, not needing to emotionally stress themselves but becoming critical thinkers and even becoming selfish at times, be as opportunists as men can be... they know their value, and quiet frankly, are more emotionally stable when it comes to these things than men are. Catering to the title, women have become just as much or even more savages than men are... single women have proven to take on normalizing and sometimes even enjoying the prospect of taking another woman's man. Let's just say they're also far more effective at that than we will ever be. It all comes with the territory of being carefree, and not accepting the norms of society, girls just wanna have fun and are now actually having their own fun with or without judgment (keep it, my loves, as you should).
  


Role-ROLE-role-RoLe-rOle?



A WOMAN HAS NO ROLE
Men are born and encouraged to be and do whatever they want... on the other hand, women are born in a world where society, or even their parents, dictate and scrutinize their every little move. So instead of the idea that they can achieve anything they want to accomplish at birth, this thought is always or mostly met with resistance or shut down, forbidden! and deemed unacceptable. It is basically a crime for a woman to be, act, or do things without a field of criticism and why? Because we don't accept women being free, they are given a "role" that suppresses them... history has stigmatized them, pushed on them for years the same narrative of just being a housewife, a mother, someone who just cooks, cleans, and nurtures. This segment of "role" is used to actually vanish that idea of a "role" ... we no longer live in a primitive time or in the actual animal kingdom. We're on top of the fucking food chain, us humans. I bring that up because we are the species who are conscious of how this bitch of world kind of works, the mother fucking ones chosen. Aside for some idiots who can't grasp the bigger picture of the most simplest concepts. So, here it is: the path a woman takes is no ones concern BUT her very own, be it that she's the provider and her husband is a stay at home dad... she's an independent stripper fucking over a rich asshole and becomes rich out of it... dating another woman and is playing mommy and daddy... CEO of a company... a single mother doing what she has to... a regular schmegular degular housewife... a chick exposing her body for whatever purpose... if she has X amount of men, that doesn't make her anything but a woman who likes to fuck... whatever a woman does with her body and self is no one's damn concern but that individual woman. No other MAN nor WOMAN should JUDGE, CARE, OR BE CONCERNED about what a woman wants to be or does with herself and body. The minute we understand that, any form or way a woman wants to be successful is her form, be it vulgar, not every path is going to be stereotyped way of success. It doesn't make you less or more of a woman being yourself, ya'll define yourselves not us and you wear it like armor :)


Ending Empowered
MY baby uniting powerful women for a better not judging at all
Ya bitches heard it in numerous forms and ways... If there's a message I wanna spread, it's that women should really follow their own instinct on being themselves in the most carefree way as possible. Encourage one another, no matter what ya'll wanna pursue. Men undeniable give women shit for anything and make life difficult. It's like they can't see them having fun or enjoying shit and wanna rain on their parade... but sometimes women are worse because.. yeah, men, give ya shit.. but ya women give each other fucking hell, sometimes it's shocking how against ya are with one another, shit's like pent up or something, Ya'll a completely different level of hostile at times, but there are women who believe women should conduct themselves in a certain manner... judging every step of the way. But ya hoes need to be able to stick together through thick and thin and keep pushing for these norms and change of character... don't hold each other back... we've been doing it for centuries now. Do not accept people's opinion but your own, anything ya do is your choosing and ya shouldn't allow anyone to make you feel bad for it. Your idea of success and what you do with your body is ultimately what YOU do, there's no second chances. Don't live in a box or bubble. I do whatever the hell I want with my body and I don't hear uproars... most men DON'T, so why should ya? Ya dead don't have to acknowledge none of this... I'm not telling ya to start an underground faction of women and rebel.. even though that shit would be sexy as fuck. I'll bend the knee. Just look out for each other & that no matter what you do, you are still women... nothing makes you more or less but being who you are.

(Shout out to my editor @carolalaflaca aka bunszofsteel, hop on them DMS, probably a huge audience of woman. but hey ladies who knows)